Yesterday, we discussed the topic of humility and pride as it relates to the cycles of grief and grace. Today, I would like to explore further the topic of humility and pride. Specifically we will discuss the consequences of pride.
James writes:
Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you. James 4:10 (ESV)
The point is that there is blessing found in humility. When we hold on to pride, there are consequences that result. Here are some consequences of pride:
Isolation
Think about the person who is the know-it-all. They tend to drive people away. A prideful person will fail to ask for help because they will not be able to admit they need help. Because they fail to ask for help, they will end up going it alone. If someone comes along to help, a prideful person will quickly push the other person away by making them feel unwanted. Pride will isolate us from others.
Disillusionment and Despair
If you put confidence in yourself, you will eventually be let down. There will come a time when your body will fail you. Your mind will fail you. Your money will fail you. Wise King Solomon recognized that even though he was considered the wisest man in the world, that his fate was the same as a fool (see Ecclesiastes 2:14). In Proverbs King Solomon also wrote:
Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall. Proverbs 16:18 (ESV)
Remember that pride is too much belief in you. If you put too much belief in something, it will only lead to disappointment.
Lack of Break-through
Pride prevents growth. It leaves us stagnated. Pride gives us a sense of accomplishment. We believe we have arrived. We close ourselves off from learning, from listening, and from opening ourselves to new ways of thinking and doing.
How many companies with a successful product failed to innovate? They were content with their success. Because they failed to innovate a new upstart company comes along with a new and innovative product. Before you know it, the formerly successful company is shuttering its doors. Blockbuster Video was an example of this. They were stuck with their brick & mortar stores. Netflix comes along and by the time Blockbuster tried to make the transition to online streaming video it was too late. Then there was Polaroid. They once had a revolutionary instant camera, but they did not realize digital cameras were the way of the future.
We tend to close ourselves off from break-through because we think we have got it all figured out. Are you teachable? Are you open to learning even in an area where you may be knowledgeable and accomplished? A good friend shared with me last night that talent alone can get you into the big leagues, but it is nurturing and refining that talent that wins championships. There are some athletes that when they make the big time, their ego is so large; they will not listen to their coach. But the athletes that lift the trophies are the ones that get past their egos, dedicate themselves to becoming better, and open themselves to new strategies and ways of playing the game.
Humble yourself, let the Lord lift you up to new heights never imagined! Take the time to learn and listen. Consider new possibilities with new ways of seeing and doing.
Questions for Reflection
- What are some other consequences of pride?
- How do we overcome pride?
- How does humility win out over pride?
- Share your comments.
annie 4 milwaukee says
What about the frustration that comes with feeling right instead of letting it go? There is so much content in letting go (even if you
annie 4 milwaukee says
What about the frustration that comes with feeling right instead of letting it go? There is so much content in letting go (even if you ARE “right”).
That’s a 4th consequence of pride.
Janet Baldwin says
That is very true. I often say you can be right “dead right” and what have you accomplished?
Mitchell GhostWalker says
Love your sermon Phil 🙂 God has been revealing to me that I have too much pride in life. Its why I keep falling apart, set back after set back and He’s revealed to me to wait on Him and not go before Him. No one wants to be teachable especially in public. The fear of thinking what other people might say about me is satan’s stronghold. I’m currently trying to learn how to have just enough pride so I can stand up but not too much that I don’t go before God.