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Stuck in a Funk Book Review

Phil —  March 31, 2013 — 1 Comment

Stuck in a Funk Book

In a few weeks I will be moving on to New Jersey. I will be starting out as the new pastor of the Lutheran Church of the Good Shepherd. Good Shepherd has seen a period of decline and stagnation over the past few years. That was why Stuck in a Funk written by Tony Morgan caught my attention.

I appreciated the way Tony challenges you to take a good hard look at your situation and to ask the hard questions. I believe too many of us bury our heads in sand and ignore reality. The church is in decline and that decline can only go on so long. It is easy to pass the blame for the decline, but passing the blame is not going to change anything. It is time we take ownership.

The book is an easy read. The chapters are short and more like blog posts. You could take each chapter as an independent study of its own.

A word of warning is that this book alone is not going to get your church unstuck. Obviously, God is needed for that, but this book serves as starting point. It will help you to identify some of the sticking points you might have. It is a tool that can be used to engage your leadership in discussion and to challenge outdated methods and strategies.

Once the sticking points are identified is when the real work begins that will require additional resources. There were many chapters in this book where I was left wanting for more. But I don’t believe that the intention of this book was to give you all the answers. Rather it was to help you ask the right questions.

Below are 7 take-a-ways I noted from the book:

A clear vision that is properly communicated will also repel people … clarifying your vision will help some people determine they don’t want to be a part of your cause.

Leaders choose between innovation and control. You can’t have both.

When we make ministry decisions to keep people happy we end up with churches full of happy Christians, but churches that have stopped growing.

You need metrics and heart change stories together. Metrics alone can mask an unhealthy organization where there is no stories of life change. Stories of life change can also mask an unhealthy organization that the numbers don’t support.

Your message has the potential to shift thinking. Your systems have the potential to shift behaviors.

It’s possible to do the work of God without doing the work God has called you to do.

It’s easier to say “yes” to everything. The problem is that without filtering communications there is no way show what is most important and that leads to confusion for those who are trying to figure out their next step. Make the next step clear without offering too many options.

Leading with Love

Phil —  February 5, 2013 — Leave a comment

Follow The Leader on Blackboard

Jesus said, “the greatest among you shall be your servant.” Matthew 23:11

Reading this Scripture verse this morning reminded me that leadership starts with love. It is impossible to effectively lead those you do not love. Many lead out of love for self and their motive is selfish gain. They desire an office of leadership to boost their position, popularity, and pride.

If we are to most effectively lead it means setting aside our agenda for the needs of others. How can we add value to the lives of others? How can we help them overcome the challenges they face in their life? People will follow you because you care. People will follow you if you can help them.

Many will see the purposes of their followers are to help them achieve their goals and dreams. But Jesus would point out that followers are there for us to help them.

As you think about your position of leadership, who is serving who? Are your followers serving you or are you serving your followers? It makes all the difference.

Success!

Phil —  January 7, 2013 — 1 Comment

Easy Bake Oven

It’s the beginning of a new year! I’ve been thinking a lot about goals, ambitions, and dreams. I’ve been thinking about all that God desires for me to accomplish. One of the questions that I have been asking is: “what does success look like?”

This last weekend I was busy preparing for Sunday morning worship. It was Saturday afternoon. My daughter asked me if I would help her to make something with her Easy Bake Oven. I must confess that at the time I was not exactly thrilled with this suggestion. I had work to do. And it was God’s work!

But setting aside what I felt to be the urgent tasks at hand, I spent an hour and made a bunch of Easy Bake Oven pizzas. That other stuff? It got done. It was all important. But not quite as important as the time I spent with my daughter. Jesus tells us that it is not worth it to gain the whole world and yet forfeit our soul.

Maybe the definition of success is not as complicated as we might make it out to be. Success is making the right decision in the moment and focus our time and attention on the one thing God would have us focus our time and attention on. There are so many distractions in this world. They are good distractions. But nothing is a good thing unless it is the God thing.

There is nothing wrong with goals. But always remember what the goals are about. They are about honoring God. We can achieve what we believe to be success. But if we get to the destination in a way that is less than honoring of God it will not really be a destination worth arriving at. We often make success about the destination, but more often the greatest success is found in the journey.

363 More to Go

Phil —  January 3, 2013 — Leave a comment

running in the snow

I set a few goals for the upcoming year. Like many I set a fitness goal. My goal was to run 365 miles in the upcoming year. That is 1 mile a day. I got started today by running 2 miles. So I have got 363 more to go.

I am writing this here because I figure you will hold me accountable to this. Last year, I set a goal to complete a 5K. I accomplished that goal. I was excited about it, but I found out that by not having a running goal after that I fell off a bit towards the end of the year.

So there is no time like now to get back into the grove. If you want to follow my progress for the year you can follow me at runkeeper.com/user/phil0128.

If you have a running goal or a fitness goal of your own, sign up on Runkeeper and maybe you can be my friend and we can encourage each other.

I believe that physical fitness is an important discipline for every leader. If you don’t take care of yourself, you reduce your effectiveness and capacity to lead. But it is a hard discipline to maintain because we do not often see the immediate results that we might see with other disciplines.

How about you? What do you do to maintain your physical fitness? How do you stay motivated?

A Thankful Mr. Mom

admin —  October 25, 2012 — Leave a comment

For the next 3 days I am Mr. Mom. Homework, basketball practices, birthday parties, dinner, and diapers! I get to do it all.

It makes me so very thankful for my beautiful wife and for all that she does. I am looking forward to these next few days, but at the same time realizing how tremendously difficult they will be.

It all got me thinking about the people in our lives that help to make our lives easier. Gratitude is not something that comes natural. I have heard it described as a muscle that needs to be exercised. It’s time to exercise that muscle.

Who is it that you need to reach out to and share your appreciation towards? Don’t wait. Do it now. Send them a note. Tell them what they mean to you. Don’t let it go unsaid.

More and more I am realizing everyday the importance of practicing gratitude as a leader. You did not get to where you are alone.

Daily David, Week 4, Day 1

admin —  September 18, 2011 — Leave a comment

This week we approach the fourth message of the King David Series at Lord of Life. It is hard to believe we are coming up on one month into our study. The first reading for this week is from 1 Samuel 29-30.

In this reading David is faced with an awkward situation. He must choose to fight against his own people or betray those who had protected him for the past year and a half. Think of a time where you faced a dilemma where there seemed no easy answer.

There are a few examples I can think of where there seemed to be no right answer or no right way. There is no option that seems like a good option. These are the times when we get on our knees and we pray that God would make a way where there seems to be no way. We go to him to pray that he will provide a way out.

I do want to offer word of caution here. Make sure that when there seems to be no way, that it is not just because the right thing is the hard thing to do. There are times we don’t take action because the right thing to do is the hard thing to do and we perceive it as too difficult and wait for an easier answer. The right thing will often be the more difficult thing.

How did God provided to deliver an alternative response to David’s dilemma (29:6-7)? Do you believe God provides answers to our dilemmas and possibilities we never thought of or imagined? If so, how do we discover them?

The Philistine leaders did not want David to go with them. They send David back to Ziklag. This essentially solved the dilemma that David faced at this time. Of course we need to remember that the only reason David found himself in this dilemma was because he failed to consult the Lord about his decision to go to Philistia. I am not so sure if he had asked the Lord about that decision that he would have found himself in this situation.

Why did the Amalekites raid Ziklag (see 1 Samuel 27:6-9)? Why did the men want to stone David (30:6)? How might you have felt in this moment towards these men you had gone to battle with and now wanted to stone you? What was David’s response (30:6)?

The Amalekites had raided Ziklag because David had been raiding their towns. After the Amalekites had captured the town they took the people away as prisoners. The men wanted to stone David because they felt that it was David’s fault that this happened. When something bad happens to us, we often want revenge. We want someone to pay. In this case, they felt like David was the one to blame.

If I had been David, my first instinct might have been to run. But it says David found his strength in the Lord. I find it interesting that the thing David does in the face of such opposition is to stand up and lead. He doesn’t condemn the men. He simply takes action and waits for the men to follow.

In this moment of distress, what is the first thing David does (30:7-8)?

After having failed to consult the Lord previously when he moved to Philistia, David now eagerly does so. It is never too late. We mess up once, we mess up twice, we mess up three times, we can still go back to God. He will help us out of the difficult situations we put ourselves in if we turn to him.

Some of the men did not carry their fair share of the burden through the battle (30:9-10), after the battle is over, there were some in the army who did not want to allow these men to receive their share of the spoils (30:21-22). What reward did these men desire to receive? What was David’s response (30:23-25)? What was David’s reward?

I am sure at this point in time all they cared about was their wives and children. That was what they wanted more than anything else. At this point in time they probably could have cared less about the other spoils that had been taken from the Amalekites.

David however says that everyone will receive their fair share. It was a matter of grace. It was not based upon works. The person fighting the battle was given as much as the person guarding the equipment.

As a result David gained a loyal following. They were thankful to him for his kindness. These men had not done anything, but David still offered a blessing to them. It is a great picture of how God will reward us on the last day. There are many different roles we all play. Some are more prominent that others, but each role is recognized as being just as important as the next.